Saturday, September 18, 2010

In Memory of Leigh Case

I have never known someone well enough that once they died, i would be in this much shock. For some reason, the death of my best friend's mom has really been hard. Leigh was one of those people that you could be so goofy around and she would laugh and play along! she nicknamed me "kayla-boo" and was basically a second mom to me all through elementary and Jr high school. I remember showing her all of me and Shelby's crazy dances we made and practicing our cheer try out in front of her and she was so supportive and sweet about everything!
She died of a rare disease called Lyme disease, and we aren't sure if it was the medication she was on, the Lyme disease itself, or overdose that took her life. she has been sick for about 6 to 7 years which was really hard for their family to go through.
My friend and I decided to make a huge sign and write "we are here for you HANDS DOWN" and have everyone handprint it with their name aside and deliver it to the Case family which turned out to be a HUGE success! the football team was let out of practice early, dear friends of ours and even some people we didn't know showed up and handprinted the poster for them! we also had tons of construction paper and markers for them to write a sweet quote or note to Shelby. when we delivered it, Shelby was so touched and her dad started to cry which of course, made me tear up a little bit, but it also made me feel like I was making a difference in their life, which then was all I wanted to do.
I will always be there for my good friend and will cheer them on as they continue through life and I know someday they will all be reunited again!

21 comments:

kayla cook said...

You are so thoughtful, and a great friend. I'm proud of my daughter! :)

Ray said...

Like the roses need the rain. Like the poet needs the pain. We can't live without sharing.thanks for your awesome blog.Best regards!

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Anonymous said...

Life has always been full of mysteries, happiness and loneliness. I as reading your post it made me feel how sad you are and at the same time I'm happy for you that you stayed there and cheer up your friend.


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Hery Siswanto said...

hmmm.... even i don't really understand.... but i think your blog is awesome....

Sophie Rich said...

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Ifinder Ifindi said...

Well. Glad to see inner feelings. Come again leisurly. I am your neighbour. I can easily visit you block. This is one way traffic. I am in your previous block (blog). Thanking You with Best Wishes.

Blue-eyed Stranger said...

wow, very touching. Litteraly began to cry. I hope only the best for your family and for shelby's too. I know how u feel since i have also never experienced death to somone close until recently. Ps. Leigh, RIP

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Anonymous said...

You seem like a really nice persons, we need more of those nowadays!

But i am so sorry for you and your friends loss.

I know the feeling my self, i lost my dad back in 2009, he were sick with cancer.

It's terrible when someone close to you, that you had a good relationship with just fades away.

/Dennis

Anonymous said...

I'm glad the sign was a success. What a coll idea. Sorry for your loss. Whever earn200 is, they ought to be ashamed.

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Anonymous said...

i read this and thought it was really sweet. ps. we have the same last name lol.

Angelica said...

that was a really nice thing to do :) I know exactly the feeling you write about when you say it was hard dealing with your friends mom pasing away. I felt the same way when my friends father died in a biker crash. He was always sweet and nice and he would drive us anywhere befoore we were old enough to drive ourself. And even though he wasn't my father i thought it was tough and hard to deal with. But what you did was big and I'm sure you did make a difference in their life's.

Anonymous said...

I lost my mom last year. It's very hard.

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Janette MARTIN said...

It's such a blessing to have loving people in this world of corruption we are living in.Your story is really touching and inspiring !

Unknown said...

really i love the way you used to share your feelings with the other and i wish to find many people like you

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